• kamenLady.@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    It’s not whining, but maybe being concerned about someone you love, care about or just having empathy with someone hurting themselves.

    • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      Why would people be *complaining about how they vent if it’s healthy?

      This post is either trying to excuse inexcusable behavor, or making up a senario where people are shamed for healthy habits.

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        There can be behaviour that is not inexcusable or shitty, but is viewed by some people as too sensitive, too emotional, too weak. People are sometimes shamed for healthy reactions like crying or just not being cheerful.