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  • ekZepp@lemmy.world
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    Start doing long walks at the park.

    Keep the house clean and tidy.

    Learn how to cook complex and tasty dishes.

    Take long hot showers before going to bed and not use your pc/phone/TV right before bedtime.

    Do some volunteering in the weekend.

    Take a pet.

    Get some hobby.

    Start random conversations with people.

    Chat with coworkers.

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      Anyone doing all this has won life in my book. I can’t do half this shit.

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        The trick is to stop thinking what a pain it is to do the thing and just doing it with an empty head.

        Also, fuck critical thinking. If you’ve done the thing, then it’s good enough. Fix will come later, if any.

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            I think that my last comment may have been a bit misinterpreted. The meaning was.

            1 - Don’t be discouraged by the idea of “HAVE TO DO” something. Just start somewhere and go on bit at the time without thinking too much about it.

            2 - Don’t force yourself to run behind great ideals of perfection and let the idea of failing block you.

            Now, that said. Did I think to know how hard may be for another person to work their problems out? Absolutely not.

            “be normal, enjoy life”

            “Normal” is a Fucking weird concept who changes all the time. Just be you.

            The “enjoy” part is something that should gradually come along as you find things you like to do. At least, this is my opinion on it.

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                Bro, we all have our problems and circumstances. What i was saying was, that i don’t underestimate yours. What I have given you was some honest suggestions. Some of which i have tried myself in the past, and that I honestly think may help.

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                “I’m asking a question on the internet but will flame you for giving an honest answer”

                Then why are you here?