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  • allows you the luxury of studying to increase the value of your work output

    I’ve always wanted more value from my work output! Or contentment and self-actualization, it was one or the other.

    luxury of ennui that gives you philosophical dread on your idle hours

    I’m assuming you mean that those idle hours are the luxury? Because I’m pretty sure tedium and boredom existed in the fields and cobalt mines long before it got a fancy French name.

    others would kill to be on your not-working-in-cobalt-mines shoes while being fed and safe

    Relative privation?

    Also, is eating ramen being fed? Is it safety if you’re one illness and insurance fuckup, or a job loss and six(?) months, away from homelessness?

    this while having thrived up to an age that for most of human history has basically senility

    Extreme infant and childhood mortality explains most of the short historical lifespans. 30 was never senility.

    The same logistics and industrial development… is the one that gives you the climate change.

    Every step of towards lessening greenhouse gases brings us closer to the fall of western civilization! Fly more, abolish public transportation, eat only beef, set your AC so low you have to wear a sweater!


  • 211@sopuli.xyztoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEat that ramen
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    18 days ago

    In your 40s your body begins to break down. Often your mind slows down too. And you’ll have people relying on you, whether at work as a senior colleague, your children, your aging parents/other relatives, your friends whose bodies have begun to break down, or whatever responsibilities/opportunities you’ve taken in your various communities.















  • The first thing is the younger party being protected and allowed to develop, which it sounds like she is.

    For me the rough time comes from realizing that either your son is dating her for her age (legal I guess, but ick), or he has so much in common with a 16-year-old it’s enough to carry a relationship, which… Dude, what did you do in those 13 years to not grow as a person, ick. I can definitely understand why it would change your perception.

    Then again, there isn’t really anything you can do about it, except express your disapproval every now and then, but make is easy for either party to end the relationship without an “I told you so”. Of all the actions for you to not condone, this is pretty mild. He could have joined a cult, committed crime, or “date” a 12-year-old.