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  • RQG@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldI can do this all day.
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    8 days ago

    Why do people accept those games and manipulation in their relationship? I’ve dealt with some shit in my youth but even in my mid twenties I just decided that’s now how I want my relationships to be. I broke up over a silent treatment once. She was a surprised Pikachu even though I told her if she keeps this up all day til bedtime and refuses to talk it out, I am done.

    So after dinner I packed my shit and went to my place.

    My current partner and I have agreed to not punish each other with things like silent treatment or love deprevation.

    When there is a problem we talk it out. If emotions are getting in the way we try to calm down first with an hour break or so. And we also can disagree and that’s fine. Otherwise we try and find a solution. Together. It’s us versus the issue at hand. Not versus each other. Coming up on 9 years together and still madly in love.







  • While I don’t think we can beat AI driven content degradation by outposting them, I still agree posting ‘just Google it’ does any good either.

    Post an answer or link a topic which covered the same question in detail. But directing people to Google isn’t something I’d advocate. Maybe tell them to Ecosiate it if you really have to.

    Also it’s just rude and creates an uninviting admosphere around here Imo.

    But the AI issue can’t be solved by users alone. It’s moderation and maybe regulation which is needed here.