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  • Shortstack@reddthat.comtoMemes@sopuli.xyzBasic courtesy
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    6 days ago

    One time I didn’t return the cart at Aldi.

    I still think about that a decade later.

    Because that haunts me I always put the cart back no matter what


    For those that don’t know you have to put a quarter in to use a cart and you get it back when you put it away which means there are never stray carts anywhere. People want their money back.









  • I pay for kagi because it’s genuinely less frustrating to use than searxng, duckduckgo, bing, and whatever shit Google is up to these days.

    They’re fine search engines but after years of using them I found they annoyed me sometimes; their limitations will surface if you use them long enough. In contrast, I haven’t ran into a kagi search results page yet that has annoyed me by not finding what I expected to see.

    The problem is that Google was good for a long time and then that became the bar everything is measured against. None of the free ones I tried came as close to that Google-like search from the before times as this paid service does.





  • I think you’re overestimating the influence of doomscrolling, internet and politics in the scope of needing meds to feel baseline, but it definitely plays a part.

    Those things, broadly speaking, are somewhat transient unless said politics directly affect your safety or rights to live life, or of those you care about. This applies to a lot of people.

    Now I’m retired at age 55. My house is paid off. I have no debt. Live in a beautiful mountain city of 500,000 people. I have chickens in my backyard

    now I just fuck around on Lemmy all day, write and publish my fiction, and take trips with my gf.

    This is more in line with why many in my cohort are struggling. Your situation is out of reach for most of us now because of a whole lot of economic reasons outside of our control. The singular person being able to side hustle their way to a house with backyard chickens and money for vacations is a win no doubt, but also the exception to the rule.

    Lifting our noses off the grindstone and looking at the horizon shows a future without hope of any of this changing. Too much stacked against us.

    And for lots of other long term reasons. One off the top of my head, the microplastics accumulating in our bodies. That’s definitely going to be a problem.

    My point is that a lot of people would be well served by not worrying so fucking much about the state of politics and the world at large

    The cliff notes version is that people are surviving, not living. You are living.

    You should enjoy the fruits of your labor, truly. Just be aware your path isn’t one we can follow anymore


  • You will find that there are lots of folks these days that have trouble coping with the collective stress of a bleak present and future.

    Meds just help us feel closer to normal so we can function instead of having a nervous breakdown every other week.

    I’m a little envious that you have the resiliency and coping mechanisms outside of meds to deal with it all