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Cake day: July 12th, 2024

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  • If that’s true, instead of asking a rather blunt and extremely-easy-to-misinterpret question of individual people, go post a question about it somewhere. The presentation you’ve chosen (I saw the other one in the wild as well) comes across as rude and combative, even if that’s not the intention. It’s a quite bad way to foster open and honest conversation.

    Since this Trump thing started rolling a whole month ago, people have been quite openly hostile toward Americans. And like fine, we get it, but many of us -are- doing things, and always have been trying to make things better… and we are getting caught by the same exhausting “you should have done more!!! You deserve it, this is what you voted for!!! Reeeeee!!!” That’s being slung at people who actually do deserve it. It’s really tiring, on top of everything else, to have to defend ourselves and our actions to random insensitive internet people with zero cause. We 75 million active blue voters can only do so much at a time to fix a country of 350 million incredibly diverse people (and we’ve been working at it for years if not decades, this loss was devastating for many of us). Most of whom are either stupid or selfish. Most of whom have never actually seen voting red or blue to have a marked impact on anything, because until quite recently it truly hasn’t made much material difference for your average person.

    Before you ask, I’m working on getting my house ready to sell so I can buy some land to build up, solo and with as much manual effort as needed, into an off-grid year-round passive-productive farm (big ask in hardiness zone 4! But I’m 💪 capable!), that forms the foundation of a robust mutual aid network to help everyone I can… tho the fruits (and veggies) of my labor are far too sweet for the vipers that are fascists, so they get nothing but shot. They made this mess and I will do absolutely nothing to protect them from the consequences. Fortunately, they can’t help but tell you who they are. Every aid package or delivery will contain pro-social messaging, about banding together to get through the hard times, about supporting everyone based on need not ability, etc. I’ll also be building additional housing on this land (again, entirely solo, other than electrical), so I can provide soft landing for friends and family, or hire a person to help me in exchange for food and board for their family.



  • Yeah because the economy is totally great right now and finding work that pays the bills is super easy!

    — things said by people who are out of touch

    Even when the economy was good, it took months to find new employment if you have to have any sort of standard (like minimum income above the minimum wage threshold). Most people right now can’t afford to be out of work for months.

    Maybe your area was good, maybe your skill set is in demand, maybe you have zero standards or requirements to support your family, whatever it is, your experience is not at all the standard, and it’s much more likely you just have survivor bias. That’s when you say “it was easy for me, it should be easy for everyone!” While everyone else is struggling.









  • I haven’t had eggs since they were $2/dozen, so zero in like 8+ months, but when I have eggs (starting chickens and quail) I’ll be eating probably 2-4/day. When they were cheap I was averaging 3/day, including baked goods and such.

    I really don’t eat much meat (can’t afford that either, but my digestive system doesn’t do well with a lot of meat anyway), and my mushroom cultures are taking foooooooorrrrrreeeeeeevvvvvvveeeerrrrr, so… need protein somewhere.



  • Which is wild considering the spice trades of the… (according to the internet, prehistory through modernity, so that’s a thing…)

    I have to assume that 1950s housewives were so thoroughly drugged up that they couldn’t tell the difference…

    I know that they made everything in jello/aspic because gelatin was formerly a luxury, like sugar and basically any spices, so they went a bit batshit when they got cheap access…





  • It won’t be good for both at the same time -most of the time- but if you can source free or super cheap peacock feathers, I’ve found them to be a toy that cats who don’t normally get along all want, and will thus play together better. The great equalizer.

    They won’t, in my current three-household-9-cat experience (and so many past but before feathers), play with each other until it’s broken and you ditch it to their devices. They will just play with you (and enjoy the fuck out of it), but pay close attention to other cats playing the same way. And that’s a normal play strategy for cats - they enjoy watching play from cats they know, it gets them revved up for their own turn at play. Cats who get along well take turns playing with you, because they recognize that you don’t play the same way they do, and rarely respond to their play requests like other cats, and are thus a limited, and valuable, resource. They want to give you their energy, because they like what you do for them.

    But when the peacock feather “dies”, and gets bent up in weird places, one will chew one end while another plays with the other end. It’s good for everyone. The cat chewing gets dental perks and the cat at the end has a now moving toy to play with.

    It isn’t perfect, but you can’t really do anything other than encouraging play between them; they are fully sentient beings, like kids. You can encourage, but ultimately they make their own choices about friends and how to interact with them. And that’s ok.

    Other than making boxes into castles (tape or wood glue work wonders), it’s more of an issue of rotating toys like one does with toddlers. If they normally have sponge balls, put them up and give them sparkly Pom balls. If they like strings, use long feathers, wands, or lasers for a few weeks instead. Just rotate their toys and they will keep the energy up while saving you money.