i thought gendered languages had two genders for words like “person” so you could make the swap when the gender is known

e.g. un person / une personne

What do you think flirting is, OP?

OP be like “Okay and how big (would you say) is that job applications part?”

Like I dunno dude, how are we supposed to quantify that shit? It’s just part of the dance

Better question we could give OP is “What difference would the answer make?” like is OP trying to figure out whether he can skip it or how much time to invest in practicing it or what lol. this is such a ridiculous thread

how bout car keys

I still think the name is apt, as “America” refers to the entire super-continent, North and South.

In accordance with the more appropriate name for the great Gulf, I hereby propose that all Mexicans become also known as Americans, and all people from the United States henceforth become known as “USians”.

Alright let’s try this keyboard out. Works pretty well, swipe not great for anything with a mostly horizontal pattern (“swipe”) or anything with a double letter. Just gotta tweak some functions like hold times and delete button functionality. Of course the swipes need to learn my patterns, at least I hope they will.

Major point deduction for not having keyboard support for my second language. And the delete function removing the entire last word when swiping makes it actually infuriating

yeah we’re here not because it’s the next new reddit, but because we were tired of reddit and spez. never said this place wasn’t a fixer upper! it’ll take some time to build up communities. but this place is doing better and better and only seems to be growing.

keep lemmy in your pocket. crosspost some memes. it’ll be here for you, and even more so if you’re here for us!

go birds 😜

islam?

cheers friend

at what point did i – you’re just trying to rile me up arent you

it worked, good job. i hope you’re proud

Why so dismissive? This is a genuine concern and you’re kinda just doing the same dopamine game. (You even have a smiley face, you’re the happy one here!)

I just don’t understand why you come to a MH community to post anti-MH sentiment.

Can you at least acknowledge that your comment is not a MH affirming attitude? Or do you really not see it???

the solution isn’t to go to therapy but to change our economic system.

how’s that working out for you? the economic system hasn’t changed and you’re still miserable, right? what if you had more capacity to fight by effectively managing your stressors? wouldn’t that be preferable? or is change just too difficult and this is an easier story to tell yourself? my god this MH community is getting my blood boiling as bad as r/conservative.

im so sick of this attitude. human history – no, the history of LIFE – has always been on the brink of destruction. the universe is cold, harsh, and awful. the challenge has ALWAYS been to find a way to live a meaningful life with the time you have here. i’m so sick of attitudes like this exploiting the fact that this isnt a utopia to excuse themselves from making positive changes in their own lives.

how the fuck are we going to create a society that isn’t soul crushing anyway?! is the first step to shit on all the therapists? systemic, societal issues are real barriers in our lives, but they are just BARRIERS. they make the job HARDER but not impossible. how do you think modern existential therapy came out of fucking AUSCHWITZ of all places? do you think they had it peachy?? was Frankl just scamming them?

the current president won the hearts of these magats by selling them the exact same fucking story you’re memeing about. “your misery is society’s fault” and then points the finger at a specific demographic. and these idiots eat that shit up. they never learned how to find meaning in their own lives so they turn to some charlatan who sells them a fantasy. do you really think Trump would have gotten elected if the populace were happy, healthy, and afraid of nothing?? do you really think Trump would have won if the magats went to therapy? THIS is the problem. THIS is why we’re in this mess.

i swear i just find this so absolutely disgusting, so insulting, to say that mental health is just “pills that trick your brain into thinking you dont hate it here”. this nonsense has NO place in a MH affirming community. go back to 4chan

lol there’s definitely a few clients like that. how many of them are holding the kerosene?

i always just look up this year’s 1040 and just fill it out myself. easy finances though…

been meaning to get an accountant this year. we’ll still do paper filing if e-filing is “deleted” lol

I think there’s some Indian communities on Lemmy but not big one. haven’t seen any Pakistani ones

lol you can’t post about this stuff on Lemmy, the majority are people who don’t relate but can’t help but open their fat mouths. 90% of the comments are always “don’t smoke”.

just fuck off and let us have a conversation about our own shit

good meme sir

so at what point are we just becoming /pol/ by reposting their bigoted nonsense here?

Because it’s a week lol you’re talking about losing water from sweating, stored sugars in muscles from exercising, and a teensy bit of fat loss. you haven’t “lost a lot” you’re just on vacation

what’s it to me? I like to tell people when they’re wrong in the internet. you said something stupid. hello.

lifestyle change and public transit are great but you’re just on vacation. and this is coming from someone who lived over a decade in the Americas and Asia both.