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  • Those admins are unpaid?

    Managing a store it’s a LOT of work. And you are doing to provide profit for other people. Who is going to do it for free?

    It’s not like social media where people may volunteer to admin and mod, and users may donate because it’s a common goal of share information, opinions, knowledge, funny stuff etc.

    Here we are talking about bussiness that do what they do because they want money. I would not volunteer to admin a store so shop owners could earn money, that’s for sure.

    And I still not see the advantage of doing within the ActivityPub instead of just being a normal service where all interested shops could join.


  • In this example instances are stores, stores are users in instances? How stores are protected to be defederated by competitors (we are talking about money and making a living here).

    What it adds to just a simple centralized service that any store can join. If you don’t want it to be another amazon, make that service a coop. or some kinds of non-profit that it’s paid by the stores that want to become part of that.

    I think here we are in the classic conundrum of “a solution in search of a problem”.

    Fediverse and ActivityPub is cool, but it’s a social media thing. And decentralization is cool when needed, for instance social media. But it doesn’t have to make sense for every use case.

    For what’s being proposed there’s zero actual need for decentralization or ActivityPub.




  • I wouldn’t know what’s “wrong” or “right” in these kind of matters.

    You should do whatever is better for your mental health.

    Are you better without having contact with your father or having contact with him?

    It’s the only question here.

    You should be aware that you would not change his mind with this or make him question his beliefs. If something his beliefs would probably grow stronger after something like that.

    You also should be aware that that action would have zero impact on the far right campaign.

    So if you do this is for your own mental benefit, nothing else. Don’t let any kind of pressure on any direction force you to do anything that’s not the best for your mental health.

    I would also consider just lowering the amount of contact and see how it goes instead of completely cut ties (an action that would have life lasting consequences)

    To be true, for what I read, if I was in your situation I wouldn’t cut ties. You said that he supports you, and for me that’s the important thing in a father. I personally have no issues having personal relationships with people with vastly different political ideologies. My mental health does not suffer from that. But every person is different, so you do what’s best for you.








  • Afaik it’s one very common kink.

    Here it goes some more info about what different people feel enjoyable about that. I’ll put in on a spoiler in case people don’t feel comfortable reading about breath play.

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    Firstly there are levels and levels of choking. The most soft one is not actual choking just playing with the idea of choking. Fron slight play with the hands to some objects, chokers, necklaces or anything that can be put around the neck and put some pressure but don’t actually cut the breath. Here the pleasure tends to come from the idea of submission, and it’s just a mental pleasure.

    Then there is full erotic asphyxiation. Most people don’t do this for obvious reasons, as it can actually be really dangerous, people tend to prefer the idea of it (for mental arousing) rather than actually doing so. Here the pleasure have two components, the same submission and mental pleasure as before and the real physical pleasure that can come from the lack of oxygen. Lack of oxygen can make a lot of funny things to our bodies, many times similar to a drug. Mixing that with all the hormones liberated during sexual activity can lead to physical responses that can be found desirable by someone. As an asthmatic you’ll probably be thinking what the hell am I talking about funny things over lack of oxygen when asphyxiation is horrible. And while it is horrible in most cases it seems to vary depending in how the oxygen is missing. It’s very similar to hikers high or the mountain high that some people can get at high altitudes due lack of oxygen.







  • There’s zero relationship between data being unencrypted and it being sent to chinese servers.

    If you use a chinese service it’s obvious that data is going to be sent to a chinese server and that the chinese server would be able to read it.

    Unencrypted data transfer, it’s a totally different thing. I would like to see if it’s truly unencrypted or just not using apple proprietary encryption.

    I luckily don’t own any apple product, but I have deepseek app on my android device. If I’m bored later I’ll try to intercept my own data to see if it’s truly unencrypted. This is easy to test. If it’s not true that newspaper is going to my “block list” asap.